Happening in Australia, the things military wives wonder about: will he be killed, maimed, or injured? Will he be the same man? Will the rotten, no good son of a bitch get laid? Military-wives-furious-over-proposal-to-send-sex-workers-for-the-troops.
Never happen in the United States Military. Adultery is a criminal offense under the UCMJ. On the other hand, homosexual conduct and trans-sex in what ever form that takes, may be required under rules governing diversity.
Don’t worry. When the husband gets back and announces, on a Saturday afternoon, that he’s going out to the garage to work on the tranny that there is a car out there.