Talk about Tinker, to Evers, to Chance. Girl finds girl, girl boffs girl, girl marries girl, and then girl turns into a guy. What’s a lesbian to do? It’s a classic story, one of which Shakespear could never have conceived. Two committed lesbians to one another and to being lesbians find one another get married, start a family and then one day one lesbian decides she is a he. The partner is devastated; does this mean if she stays in the relationship, she will have to turn in her lesbian union card? This-week-in-gender-dystopia
I don’t have enough information to give a definitive answer. While sex change surgery has come a long way, the construction of male genitalia is bordering on a step too far. Many female to male transsexuals opt for hormones, and a mastectomy and call it even.
If that is the case, in this instance, and beaver is still on the menu; keep your lesbian union card.
Glad I could help.